What is your default interpretation?

• What is your default interpretation when you hear another’s reasoning or intention? Do you attempt to understand their cause and their intentions, or are you only concerned with the final outcome?  Do you let them complete, or do you judge them even before they finish?

• It’s not uncommon for us to say that our words got misinterpreted, but what about the times when we misunderstood others or judged them?

• We react the way we interpret others. You’ll have the right response when you pick the right inference from someone’s actions or external events.

• It is imperative to be aware of our own biases  and lenses when interacting with others. If we interpret information incorrectly, we will act inappropriately.  However, if we hear it as something pleasant, we will behave accordingly.

• A word can have multiple meanings. The same word can have both harsh and innocent connotations.  It can either make you laugh or make you cry. The same words can either cause conflict or create a deeper connection. They are capable of either building or destroying relationships.

• Don’t just listen to other people. Rather, listen to them and understand their perspective.  Take the time to understand their viewpoint and why they are saying what they are saying?

But that’s just my take. Comment and share yours.

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